The empowering rise of single mothers by choice
Today, women's roles and dreams are changing a lot. More women are bravely becoming single mothers by choice, changing what we think about families and living life how they want. In this article, I'll discuss the reasons behind the rise of single mothers by choice and what makes them feel strong and empowered.
Shifting Societal Perceptions
Traditional notions of family structure have been undergoing a significant evolution.
As society becomes more inclusive and accepting of diverse family dynamics, the stigma once associated with single motherhood is gradually dissipating.
Women today are empowered to make choices that align with their values and aspirations, leading to a surge in those opting for the journey of choice motherhood.
“The share of U.S. children living with an unmarried parent has more than doubled since 1968, rising from 13% to 32% in 2017.”
Redefining Settling: Empowerment over Compromise
Gone are the days when women felt compelled to settle for less than they deserved. The concept of finding a life partner and settling down has evolved, with many women valuing their autonomy and independence.
Today's women are unapologetically embracing their dreams and refusing to compromise their life goals.
The decision to become a single mother symbolizes this empowerment—a choice rooted in courage and the belief that happiness and fulfilment in motherhood can be achieved without a traditional partnership.
Delayed Parenthood and Prioritizing Career
Pursuing a successful career has become a priority of many women in modern life.
Today's women are breaking barriers across industries, shattering glass ceilings, and consciously prioritizing their careers and passions.
Pursuing education, career advancement, and personal growth has led many women to delay starting a family until the right time. It's no coincidence that most Single Mothers by Choice are aged between 36 and 45.
“78% of the single women who ordered sperm for their fertility treatment were between the age of 36 and 45.”
Choice motherhood enables women to lay a solid foundation by achieving their personal and professional goals, empowering them to embrace motherhood on their own terms.
Financial Independence and the Freedom of Reproductive Choice
Advancements in reproductive technology, combined with increasing financial independence among women, have empowered them to consider choice motherhood as a viable option.
Many women are financially savvy and able to comfortably support themselves and their children, eliminating the notion that parenthood must depend on a partner's finances.
The ability to freeze eggs, undergo in vitro fertilization (IVF), and access other assisted reproductive methods provides women with greater control over their reproductive timeline.
This, coupled with the confidence to financially support a child in a stable and loving home independently, has contributed to the rise of choice motherhood.
Conclusion
The increase in single mothers by choice shows how independent, strong, and determined women are today.
As societal perceptions evolve, career aspirations expand, and women exercise their reproductive freedom, the path of choice motherhood gains prominence as a viable and empowering option.
With each empowered choice made, women are crafting their destinies, demonstrating that family can be defined by love, determination, and the pursuit of one's dreams
- Reema
Have more questions, or need a sounding board to help you get started on your journey, find out more about my coaching service here.
If you want to learn more about my journey of becoming a Choice Mom, I invite you to check out my ebook, where I share my personal experiences and provide the self-inquiry questions and resources to help you on your choice mom journey.
But, if you're ready to explore whether coaching is right for you, book a consult today. Together, we can navigate this process and ensure you have the guidance and support you need to make confident choices.
Because no woman needs to go through this process alone.
